ni Reggee Bonoan - @Sheet Matters! | May 3, 2022
Totoo talaga ang kasabihan na: "Don’t judge the book by its cover."
Kaya namin ito nasabi ay dahil hindi namin inakalang dumaan sa matinding depression si Maggie Wilson, dating Binibining Pilipinas World 2007 at successful entrepreneur.
Puro kasi masasayang ganap niya sa buhay ang nasa Instagram posts niya, at mga travels nila ng asawang si Victor Consunji noong hindi pa sila hiwalay kasama ang nag-iisa nilang anak na si Connor.
Nitong Lunes ay inalala ni Maggie na taong 2019 pa pala nagsimula ang kalbaryo niya na sumabay pa sa lockdown dahil sa COVID-19 pandemic.
Base sa post niya:
“Reflections:
“In 2019, I went through one of the hardest challenges in my life emotionally. 2020 wasn’t any better. I thought things were getting better then I got hit again with more emotional distress.”
Umamin si Maggie na dumaan siya sa therapy.
“Then lockdown happened and that wasn’t easy for any of us. I sought help and did online therapy to help me deal with what I was going through. (There’s absolutely no shame in seeking help.) You couldn’t really tell by my posts on social media because I was trying to keep things happy and light until I couldn’t take it anymore in 2021,” saad pa niya.
Inanunsiyo niyang hiwalay na sila ng asawang si Vic Consunji, Jr. nu'ng 2021 pagkalipas ng 11 years nilang kasal.
Sa pagpapatuloy nito, “My weight was as up and down because of stress, my skin suffered, I couldn’t sleep, I was so broken… I still am, but I’m putting back the pieces together slowly.
“I have serious trust issues because of what’s happened in the past that it gives me so much anxiety and stress. It doesn’t help that other people are also adding more grief, still trying to hurt me and make my life difficult but I’m trying my best to handle it.
“I’m tougher than ever but sometimes I do have my down days and that’s ok. We just need to recognize our mistakes, our flaws, acknowledge them, get help when we need it because no one else can help you if you don’t help yourself first. We make mistakes but what defines us is how we learn from them.
“At the end of the day, we’re all human and no one is perfect. So love yourself a little more, give yourself a pat on the back, and continue working on you. I am/We are a work in progress.”
Marami namang nagpadala ng suporta at emoji hearts kay Maggie.
Say ni @juliannnflores, “Absolutely true! We all are a work in progress Hugggggs Maggie!”
Gayundin si @erin.com.ph, “Sending hugs and lots of love to our queen @wilsonmaggie.”
Ayon kay @_luhn.dner_clinician_thmceoph_, “I'm proud of you Miss Maggie. It also helps that at that moment 2019-2020, you did not post much about your personal grief via social media, and emotional distress. God is good, in the years to come, for sure, better and happier days will come. Laban lang po.”
Mula naman kay @jhoie_j, “I can relate much to you. Keep going, you are strong and brave enough to face it. What I also realize in this journey is we should have learned to love ourselves more.”
Samantala, kasalukuyang nasa Amerika si Maggie para sa isang project na hindi pa niya sinasabi kung ano.
Base sa kanyang IG Stories ay ikinuwento nitong nagpa-lip tattoo siya para hindi na siya lagay nang lagay ng lipstick na bagay na bagay naman.
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